Have you ever felt that there is more inside you than your current reality reflects? Do you have great ideas of growing your business but somehow find ways to sabotage your attempts and stay exactly where you are?

In a previous blog post, I explain how everything we do is a strategy . That means that where ever you find yourself currently in your business or career, you’ve used some sort of strategy to get you there. There’s something that you’re getting from being exactly where you are and the perceived cost of what it would take to get to where you want to be that is too high. But this can change!

We keep playing small in business and in life for various reasons…it could be to stay connected to our friends and family. Do you realise that you would have to let some people go in your life if you grow massively and attract the business and life you want? This is true for many people. It’s much easier to stay where we are, with the people we’re used to than to face the daunting reality of some people disappearing from our lives.

It could also be that you’re not quite ready to give up the time that it would take for you to get to where you want to be. Or you’re not ready to give up the lifestyle (for a short period) to invest in your business and your dreams. Or you’re not ready to give up your story and your pattern of blame and justification.


This is a very important question because if you don’t take the time to examine this, you may very well find yourself stuck in the same position for the next 5 years, 10 years and beyond. Remember if nothing changes, nothing changes, right?Either you become content with where you are currently and stop deluding yourself that you really want more. Or you can take the time and dedication to examine this question. Once you find the answer, you’ll be amazed at the pathway and the opportunities that show up.

This is not an easy question to answer, so don’t be hard on yourself if the answer doesn’t come to you immediately. With a strategic sequence of questions, I’ve helped clients uncover what it is that is keeping them stuck, what it is that’s sabotaging their dreams. What I’ve found is that the answer always comes from you, I just have the tried and tested tools to pull it out.

You’re never alone, feel free to reach out to me if you are really serious about creating your best business and life.

Till next time,

A xx